Relationships (Hints)

For those of you romantics out there have you ever come across this familiar scenario? "You are in a position where you simply adore this girl, but you have no way of telling whether or not she shares your feelings towards her, but you decide to go for it". Quite frankly it happens to the majority of guys out there and we all know what the conclusion to this scenario will be, nothing more than a shot down and a broken heart. But you ask what of those who are successful? To put it simply they were lucky nothing more nothing less. Have you ever wondered why you can never tell if a girl likes you or not, well it's because they don't give out hints or act any differently than they normally do. Face it, it is impossible to tell if a girl likes you or not, it's like taking a shot in the dark with a blindfold. The purpose of this is just to tell girls to give hints, give a guy some way to know that you like him, make his life easier with less rejection and depression. Simply put, if you want to put an end to the sappy poems that boys write after they have been rejected make their life easier give them a hint. We all know how the story ends up, there are two scenes: 1) They act like nothing happens 2) things become awkward and they no longer talk, scene 1 rarely happens. I've taken the liberty to ask a couple of my friends on this matter, and the results were as follows, all the girls I have asked act no different than their normal behavior when they like a guy. On the opposite side I asked the boys if they knew if that girl liked them, their answer was no. To the females who say that men don't give hints either are completely wrong. Guys always give "hints" when they like you. I will list the simplest while there are others that are extreme: Compliments, wanting to spend time together more often, getting closer, talking more often, texting etc. These are simple and kinda obvious hints that show a guy likes you. So you have no right to say we don't give out hints, when we like you, you should know right away because of changes in behavior. Take me for example, people say I can be a jerk, but when I'm around a girl I simply adore, my attitude becomes nice, my whole attention goes to her. What I'm trying to say is girls should just notice hints and not give the guy any hopes if you don't share the same feeling, and lastly to just give off a little hint to make our life a little easier and not make our life a world of rejection after rejection. How else are guys to know? simple they don't.

Sincerely

Schmoobs

P.S: Lets end this game and finally take the blindfolds off.