How often do you overhear your friend break up with her boyfriend because she found out he was cheating, or that he was a jerk or something along those lines. It is as if once a guy is initiated into a relationship he treats the girl as nothing more than any other friend he drinks beer with and games with. Now not all of this applies to everyone for there are exceptions; but sadly it is a vast majority of guys. Then there are some guys have the nerve to ask why when the girl decides to break up. What is far worse is that girls have no way in telling and it results in heartbreak and distrust to the opposite sex, you may believe that you know everything about someone but appearances are only skin deep. Men act differently in front of women as opposed to when they are with other guys, again this only applies to a majority of guys. The only solution I can give for this dilemma is to wait, and see how this guy you fancy acts with his friends, because 80% of the time it will be the same way he treats you. Now the way I analyze these broken relationships results in 3 steps. The first is the good impression, guys show that side that you want to see and lull you into a false sense of security. The second is mid-stage of the relationship where his actual personality arises and you start fighting. And lastly is the heart wrenching break up which causes even more problems in an already twisted lifestyle. Unfortunately there is no way to stop these series of unfortunate events. You just have to remember that some guys are idiots who want a relationship simply for a relationship, and some just want it for the sake of status amongst their friends. Now I'm not bashing all guys because there are those who are the exact opposite. The basic message of this post is to all the guys, not all girls like jerks and if you are wondering why your relationships are always ending off in a bad manner, it is probably because of your personality. You should maybe think about your actions before you do it and consider the feelings of your girlfriend as opposed to what your friends think, status after all is overrated. If you can't understand even that I'll compensate and make it easier for you, it is simply to think with your head and not with your urges. To all the girls the only advice I can offer you is to wait and see, don't rush into a relationship you have a lot of time. Don't make your relationships into something you'll regret later on. Just remember there are a lot of fish in the sea, you just have to know which ones to throw back.
Sincerely
Schmoobs
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I know where you going with this but you gotta understand, theres not only two groups, the "jerks" and the "nice guys." I've treated my ex the same i treated her before, maybe just spend more time with her, i even gamed less and hung out with my friends less. She constantly told me to put what i love first, which she consantly ranked her self not as important as my hobbies and my family. I didn't understand, she actually wanted me to game more. And so i did, but then there was this one day where a friend of her, a guy, told her to watch out for me, that i might be those kind of guys that only games and only has a girlfriend, to pretty much showcase them and say "look i have a life," that pissed me off so much, but i asked her if she thought i was that kind of person, she said no. But who knows what they're really thinking. What i dont believe is how fast it was for her to simply forget and give up on our relationship we we've been apart for only a month and a half, i wouldve given everything to her, i actually deeply loved her. She showed me what it was like to be loved and to provide love to your partner. Anyways too much details already and there's a lot more to it, this summers already been absolutely retarded.
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You prolly know who i am, stupid gmail showing names :D
terrance youre a fag. people still hate you eventhough your out of high school.
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